How to Have More Confidence
It is no surprise that the people we look up to for their beauty, style, and looks are the same people we who have the confidence to get whatever they like. Have you ever heard someone say “Look Good Feel Good“. Of course you have, however there is more to this incredibly overused saying than its cheesiness, which is the fact that the core concept of it is fairly true. Confidence is the most important thing a man can have. It makes him Sexy. It makes him Intelligent. It makes him Persuasive. So what gives these people this confidence?
Alright looks like we are done so I guess this is the end of the article…
Well its not exactly that simple. No one who has true confidence is given it, they take it. The best embodiment of what being truly confident is “Confidence is not “She will like me.” Confidence is “I’ll be fine whether she likes me or not.”” in this Reddit thread. However, I would go about replacing “she” in that quote to “them”. There should be no one you have to impress in order to have self-fulfillment. The only way to be truly happy with one’s self is by having confidence. Confidence can only be derived from inside of yourself. Yes, when someone calls you attractive or gives you a compliment it can immediately boost your self-esteem but this will never causes fulfillment in your life because in time it will fade. The only way to this fulfillment in your life is to derive it from within yourself. Once you do this you will lead a happier life and no longer crave satisfaction from society.
In regards to why this matters to male fashion, once you have learned to accept yourself and have gained confident it is an amazing feeling to express that confidence. Another phrase you have all probably heard is “the clothes make the man” the reason for this statement is simple: what you wear is almost like a first impression it is eye catching…which can either be a good thing or bad thing based on what you are wearing. Men have always idolized celebrities for example one is James Dean, who is pictured below.
James Dean died over 60 years ago and men are still striving to be like him
Just look at him! His confidence is radiant and you cannot help but want to be by him hoping it will rub off on you. Hopefully you have learned that it will take a lot of introspection to gain the confidence that you want but it is well worth it. This article was just meant to show you that you do not need others approval in order to have confidence and the power that comes with it. This was the start of my goal, which is to teach you how to dress and have amazing style. Please leave any requests for articles you would like in the comments.